The scene on a recent Wednesday night at 58 Degrees and Holding Co. looked like a typical night at the midtown wine bar. There were lots of people, lots of chatting, and there was lots of wine. But for a guy like Chris Voight, who was sitting at a tall table, talking with people around him, just being there made it anything but normal. "I'm not really a bar guy," he said. "And I'm a wine ...